Thursday, February 16, 2012

Roller Coaster

That's my life.
With its up and down's.
Anything less than amusing :D
I realize I have no much time for blogging ever. It seems that all week long I am fully scheduled.
This week, I got sick. So that means, it's time to slow down, lay down and rest.
So that's what's happening right now.
I like doing nothing... but I don't like being sick :S
I am happy with all the things I've been doing.
In all my visits to the sisters, to investigators, attending meetings, trainings, cooking, making phone calls, dropping off food to the families in need in my ward, I always think of my RS Sisters... 
How do we occupy our lives?
Do we find ourselves going "about doing good"?
Do we feel the joy of serving?
There is so much we can do. 
I've felt bad at times about leaving my house in KOs , but I find that the satisfaction and the feeling of having done something excellent before doing something good makes me feel better.
I'm reminded of the talk by Elder Ian S Ardern "A Time to Prepare".
It makes me question how well I am making use of my time, what my priorities are...etc.
What he said made an impact.... ( I get so many of those "awakenings" in gen conf)
"There is much that is good with our easy access to communication and information. I have found it helpful to access research articles, conference talks, and ancestral records, and to receive e-mails, Facebook reminders, tweets, and texts. As good as these things are, we cannot allow them to push to one side those things of greatest importance. How sad it would be if the phone and computer, with all their sophistication, drowned out the simplicity of sincere prayer to a loving Father in Heaven. Let us be as quick to kneel as we are to text.
So important to remember.

Since starting the year, we've been striving to be perfect in our reading together as a family. And I've been working on my personal study as well.
It might be simple, but I don;t allow myself to enter in facebook, or gmail, or any other app in my phone before I read my scriptures and study the book " Daughters in my Kingdom".
I wake up early enough and I have time to do it, to read, to prepare breakfast, to prepare and pack lunches for the kids, to read together and drive them to school.
I am so happy the kids are trying really hard too. Isabel finally kneels with us to say the prayer, instead of climbing on everyone and laughing, she now wants to say the prayer all the time... and she gets the books, and she sits during reading and she even reads ( repeats the words after us)... and she loves it!! and I love that they are all part of this family! that they all are part of this moment... that everyone is in this together!
we all want it so bad to make this a norm in the house, and there is only good that will come from this.
I am so excited :D

Saturday, February 4, 2012

how long has it been???

I think I will write something...just to write something.
There are just too many things I need to take care of....
I just need time to stop for a second so I can gather my thoughts, make some plans, organize myself and actually do something i can be proud of.
But in a way I am not too worried because I am really blessed in the areas of my life that matter most to me.
My family:
Evan is doing great in school, he's doing great in the military.... he got some work to be in a movie ( the new superman movie) as a US navy officer and he got paid a good chunk.
He just started teaching as a Seminary teacher. So he's super busy...and tired!
My kids are doing great in school. Carmen is participating in a talent show at her school.
She is such a clever girl. Her mind is so out of this world. She doesn't seem to stop to amaze me.
Evan is making lots of friends. I can't believe how fast he's learning to read! He's even started to write!
He now reads a whole verse of the scriptures on his own in Spanish!! 
I am so happy that we have been perfect at reading the scriptures every morning together for a few months in a row now... I am excited! We have been working on memorizing scriptures for primary. Carmen's memory is amazing!
Isabel is talking more and more. She seems to be more "out there" now. She is now in primary and I think she's getting used to a class setting better now. So I've been taking her to more groups.... and I just signed her up to a talent agency. We'll see!
Since I was called the RS president... I've been strengthened beyond understanding.
My personal study has had to improve, my faith has had to grow and my heart has had to be softened.
I am so glad my sisters have shown me love and respect and support.
I am so happy that I've seen miracles.
We'll have 3 new sisters into our RS this month. And I intend to have so many more to come.
We have set goals, we have put our trust in the Lord and we can see things happening.
It's teaching me that sisters, when they're united, they're a powerful force for good in the world!
It's an amazing feeling to be leading such a great group of women.
I find that I am at my happiest when I am serving... when I am useful... when I am doing something good.
ok... so there are many things that are working for me.......
i just need to do better with the laundry and ironing pile!!!!


Saturday, January 14, 2012

my girls

Carmen just asked me to paint her nails.
Isabel watched and she asked for it too...
I got jealuse, and why not do it too??
So the 3 of us...
matching nails!!!

(note my new ring! i love it.... major points for evan :D)

First Post of the Year

Almost two weeks into 2012 and I decide to blog.
Christmas time was great.
I thought a little on the baby that we anticipated we would enjoy this Christmas with... and missed it a little.
It was such a busy time, though. I guess it would have been very different.
Lots of activities to get ready for, lots of work for me to do, lots of cooking, lots of outings, lots of joy, lots of   family and friends staying at our house.... lots of messes to clean up.... but so worth it...every minute of it!
I really loved it!
I was so busy, and as usual, after being so stressed I got sick but I was able to enjoy the Holidays.
These are pictures of Isabel and I, getting ready for our NEW YEAR celebration.
She loves to hang out with me in the bathroom while I do my hair, put on make up. 
I love her company!
She is so fun.
I love I have two very girlie girls!



My end result... I got lucky and Sarah was there to do my hair :D
And she made me those fabulous earrings :D

So happy New Year everyone!
Don't know about you, but I love new beginnings.
This year I am gonna get it right!

Friday, December 23, 2011

My Birthday...I'd tell ya!

So my b-day started at 12am, yes, we were awake because Evan's parents just got back from their mission in Trinidad and Tobago!!
It was a really nice surprise!
Sarah and Kyle, and the kids were staying at our house for a couple of days and Jordan and Tracy, and the kids came to pick them up and we had a little visit at our house with everyone.
Evan surprised me with a ring!
If you didn't know he never bought me a ring.
Not an engagement ring or anything. In fact I bought our wedding bands.
I never asked him for one either.
I knew I didn't want a diamond ring.
But I had mentioned to him that I like my birthstone, the Topaz.
So he got me a blue topaz ring on a white gold ring!
So pretty.
I LOVE IT!!
I always give him a hard time about how I don;t like the things he gets me,
but this was a really nice surprise!
I love it!
It is a bit big on me, so I'll get it resized today.
So next morning, I had to get up really early and get some food orders and delivered them.
I was so early I had to help load the carts and put them in my car.
I had to drop them off and carried the boxes again... so I ended up with a HUGE back pain!
To top things I got my period!
So I was exhausted by the time I got home.
Sarah had to go to the doctor with a pink eye.
I slept while she was gone.
When she came back she gave me a haircut and she made me a cake.
It was super yummy!
It was like the deep fried cheesecake in montana's!
Really good!
Then we got ready and while I went to the spa to get my facial ( the other present from Evan!)
she got some things for tonight's pot luck at Tracy's.
The spa was fantastic!
I really loved getting a massage! 
My sore body appreciated it so much!
We also stopped by Mimi McQueen to get a blouse that I fell in love with!
And then rushed home, because I had to get everyone and then I had a funeral.
Yes.... instead of going out to celebrate my b-day, I had a funeral.
And I wanted to be there.
I am glad I was there.
Everyone was at Jordan and Tracy's and it was so much fun.
I'll just say that Doug is hilarious.
I hope madelaine posts the video in facebook.
But just imagine Doug tickling himself!... I still laguh thinking about it!!!
Yes, we had the usual hockey conversation and the linguistic debate....
As always super fun. And we even had Dad this time to share all about why it is that Spain has the Theta sound. 
Shoot me!
I was dead by the time we got home.
Wednesday... more shopping in preparation for the Relief Socitety Party that night.
Stress!!
Wrapping the little packages I got for the visitors that were coming, writing my testimony in the Books of Mormon I was giving out, preparing all the souvenirs we were giving out to everyone, cooking the 2 pork legs I was bringing, getting plates, cups and  the rest for the dinner!!
I went picked up my two friends, picked up a present from a sister who called saying she couldn't come, and got to church just when the elders were setting the tables.
So we set up and decorated.
The sisters seemed to start arriving on time!
We had a lovely dinner!
Everyone loved the new recipe we tried out.
Pork with honey, nuts and rosemary, and grapes.
Yummy!
They sang happy birthday to me!
In English, in Mexican, in Spanish... and they even threw the "manyanitas"!
My mom used to sing it for us too when we were little :D
We had to clean up.
I had to put everything back into our closets, and some sisters helped in the kitchen.
By the time I was leaving I got the shivers and it was hard to talk cuz of my swollen tonsils.
GREAT!
Next morning... to the doctor ( that was a total jerk, by-the-way)
and got some antibiotics... hopefully they start working soon!.
The rest of the day... in bed!
I hate being sick right now.
I have to go to get an ultrasound this afternoon, so we'll get the last shopping done on our outing,
I have to get the dinner ready for tomorrow, and the trukey is marinating already for sunday.
Then Sarah and Kyle are back for New Year's... I hope I can enjoy some of the Holidays!!!!!!!



Saturday, December 10, 2011

Issues... Car Issues

Well.... I have issues. Car issues.
And I hate to have car issues.
But what's most annoying is my car deciding to go wrong when I am on my own, with all the kids tagging along.
First of all.
For some reason I need to be in charge of  our car.
I have to get the oil changes, I have to check the tire's air pressure, I have to take it to do the air care ( and it didn't pass!!) .
I had something changed ( $200) and tried it again.
It didn't pass again!!
I .... I said I again.... had to find someone to wacth my kids while i took it to the shop to get it repaired ($600) and took a bus home.
Then again, I got someone to stay with the kids and this time my VT drove me.
I took the air care test again.... it didn't pass again, but they gave me a conditional pass.
Then I had to renew the insurance...
I am not even the primary driver!! the insurance is not in my name!!! Evan had to sign some documents!!
 All this stuff with the car BUGS me!!!!!!
So... today, I am all stressed and driving off , just around the corner of my house, a FLAT TIRE!!!!!!
Again!!
Evan is working.
My neighbour ( the mecanic!) is not home. I have a spare tire, but my jack is missing one part, so i pumped the tire but couldn't put it on.
Jordan came to the rescue.
He took as to our McLean family gathering and Laura brought us back home.....
Now $180 later, I am a proud owner of BCAA and my car is now drivable.
In a few hours I have to go get Evan from work....
 he'll be happy to know he just got his Christmas present! 
I hate to have an unreliable old car.... 
I wish Santa was real.
A new car is my list.
I know he would give it to me.
I really need one.
Santa!!
I need Santa!
Especially now that my car is eating away all our money.... my kids are going to wish there was a real Santa as well.
:(

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

10 Years

i realized it's been 10 years since one of the most defining moments in my life.
of course i look back in wonder.
i entered this temple ( Madrid, Spain) for the first time in my life.
a moment  to make sacred covenants.
a moment of learning, of immense joy and testimony.
i thought i had a testimony before, but right then, there was NO doubt in my mind.
that experience transformed me forever.

a couple of weeks later i entered this other temple (Preston, England).
that time as an ordained missionary of Jesus Christ.
WOW.
that's all i can say.
another experience that was out of this world.
it was the experience of my life.
nothing like 18 months of your life to share eternal truth to the world.
 it's been 10 years. 
10 years ago i was embarking in the most amazing journey. 
the start of covenant making in my life.
i'll be forever grateful to my God for everything that led me to make that decision to serve Him.
it continues to be a blessing everyday of my life.

in january will be 8 years since i made the most important covenant in this other temple (Seattle, WA, USA).
this time it was marrying the love of my life and being sealed to him for all eternity.
our love, only through this covenant, is ETERNAL.

last saturday i was able to attend this other temple ( Vacouver, BC, Canada).
  
i feel so blessed.
we are so blessed to have temples.
we were there to perform covenants in proxy for Evan's grandma.
some of his family was there.
when we were sitting in the peace of the celestial room, i looked around.
his brother, two sisters, and his aunt and uncle were there.
his aunt heather and uncle dennis are some of the most special people i've ever met.
"you're so lucky" i whispered to him.
tears rolled down my cheek as i thought of my uncle Pablo that just passed away.
one day we'll do the work for him.
one day, i hope, i can sit with members of my family, being united to them throughout all eternitties.
that's the beauty of temples.
that's the beauty of the Savior.
that's the beauty of the restored Gospel.
i have no doubt in my mind where to find truth.
click here.